Sunday, November 7, 2010

Eminem ft. Rihanna-Love The Way You Lie

Right away when I read this assignment the first thing I thought of were songs by one of my all time favorite artist, Eminem. Most of his songs are about all kinds of justice issues, but one particular stood out more than all the others. This song is off his newest album Recovery, its with Rihanna and called Love The Way You Lie. It has to do domestic violence/abuse. Its lyrics are as follows:

Just gonna stand there
And watch me burn
But that's alright
Because I like
The way it hurts
Just gonna stand there
And hear me cry
But that's alright
Because I love
The way you lie
I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

I can't tell you what it really is
I can only tell you what it feels like
And right now there's a steel knife
In my windpipe
I can't breathe
But I still fight
While I can fight
As long as the wrong feels right
It's like I'm in flight
High of a love
Drunk from the hate
It's like I'm huffing paint
And I love it the more that I suffer
I sufficate
And right before im about to drown
She resuscitates me
She fucking hates me
And I love it
Wait
Where you going
I'm leaving you
No you ain't
Come back
We're running right back
Here we go again
It's so insane
Cause when it's going good
It's going great
I'm Superman
With the wind in his bag
She's Lois Lane
But when it's bad
It's awful
I feel so ashamed
I snap
Who's that dude
I don't even know his name
I laid hands on her
I'll never stoop so low again
I guess I don't know my own strength

Just gonna stand there
And watch me burn
But that's alright
Because I like
The way it hurts
Just gonna stand there
And hear me cry
But that's alright
Because I love
The way you lie
I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

You ever love somebody so much
You can barely breathe
When you're with them
You meet
And neither one of you
Even know what hit 'em
Got that warm fuzzy feeling
Yeah them chills
Used to get 'em
Now you're getting fucking sick
Of looking at 'em
You swore you've never hit 'em
Never do nothing to hurt 'em
Now you're in each other's face
Spewing venom
And these words
When you spit 'em
You push
Pull each other's hair
Scratch, claw, bit 'em
Throw 'em down
Pin 'em
So lost in the moments
When you're in 'em
It's the rage that took over
It controls you both
So they say it's best
To go your separate ways
Guess that they don't know ya
Cause today
That was yesterday
Yesterday is over
It's a different day
Sound like broken records
Playin' over
But you promised her
Next time you'll show restraint
You don't get another chance
Life is no Nintendo game
But you lied again
Now you get to watch her leave
Out the window
Guess that's why they call it window pane

Just gonna stand there
And watch me burn
But that's alright
Because I like
The way it hurts
Just gonna stand there
And hear me cry
But that's alright
Because I love
The way you lie
I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

Now I know we said things
Did things
That we didn't mean
And we fall back
Into the same patterns
Same routine
But your temper's just as bad
As mine is
You're the same as me
But when it comes to love
You're just as blinded
Baby please come back
It wasn't you
Baby it was me
Maybe our relationship
Isn't as crazy as it seems
Maybe that's what happens
When a tornado meets a volcano
All I know is
I love you too much
To walk away though
Come inside
Pick up your bags off the sidewalk
Don't you hear sincerity
In my voice when I talk
Told you this is my fault
Look me in the eyeball
Next time I'm pissed
I'll aim my fist
At the dry wall
Next time
There will be no next time
I apologize
Even though I know it's lies
I'm tired of the games
I just want her back
I know I'm a liar
If she ever tries to fucking leave again
I'mma tie her to the bed
And set the house on fire

Just gonna stand there
And watch me burn
But that's alright
Because I like
The way it hurts
Just gonna stand there
And hear me cry
But that's alright
Because I love
The way you lie
I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

 The reason I picked this song is one because I believe it is a great music video and very powerful. Two the fact that Rihanna sings in it I believe is also powerful after the domestic abuse she suffered in the hands of Chris Brown. Finally I think this song holds a lot of truth in it about domestic violence. In the lyrics you can see where after a fights the man says he is sorry and that it will never happen again. The woman wants to leave but can't, she becomes trapped and never gets out. Hearing the words from him sounds great, but in reality she knows its a lie and it is just a vicious cycle that the couple lives in. I feel that this is a huge problem in our society woman get in extremely abusive relationships and they become trapped in them. They realized its a bad situation, and no matter who tries to reach out to help more often than not it doesn't help until something terribly bad happens. By then it is very possible it's too late. Watch the video below and listen to the lyrics and hopefully you too will see how this song reveals in a powerful way how abusive/violent domestic relationships occur in our society.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uelHwf8o7_U&ob=av3e

3 comments:

  1. Emily also chose this song..read her analysis of it as well.

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  2. :) I was going to anaylse this song also but I figured this song would be a popular choice amoungst the class. This song does display violence between a couple within a relationship. The boyfriend threatens to tie his girlfriend to a bed and catch her on fire. This song based on that would be bad for some crazied people because they might try to imitate this behavior

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  3. I love this song! I have a friend who experienced domestic violence like this and she said that this is exactly how she felt. This is a great song. So powerful!

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